Hint: It Has Nothing to do With Niceness…
We all know the current of discourse running through our social media feeds, our text conversations, internet threads and beyond — men bemoan the fact that women just can’t seem to settle down for a “nice guy” like themselves and seek to justify this claim with a gazillion examples of…
Relationships
The older I get, the more I look around and realize a lot of men haven’t grown up
Unpopular opinion: it’s time for us to stop pretending that finances aren’t a crucial factor in long-term relationships. They are. While wealth won’t make you happy, poverty will make you miserable.
Let me tell you about Christian. Christian hasn’t worked a job since 2012. …
Why do so many women make noise during sex?
I remember being young and feeling out of place as I navigated the world of sex. I fumbled around like a child who’d just been handed a violin and asked to play Mozart.
I think we all were. Puberty is a tough part of life. There’s a lot going on…
Sexuality
We’re more than just a body and unending desire
He had awakened to an entirely new world of sexual desire. It was something that burned within him. It was constant. It was painful. It was torturous. It was like a persistent itch that he could never scratch. And when he didn’t attain the sex he so desperately desired, he…
#2: Volume Matters more than you think.
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So you’ve just signed up for a new creator program to make some money as a content creator. I hope you’ve found…
Sexuality
The sexual truths we never discuss
Every culture has its lies. I believe it was the poet and playwright Oscar Wilde who once said that all culture is just a shared set of delusions. And we have our fair share of delusions in Western Culture.
Delusions so profound and ubiquitous that it’s hard to tease them…
With the internet out, I decided to compare the COVID-19 cases and deaths in the vaccinated and unvaccinated groups in the U.S.
The internet went out for a few hours recently, so I had to do something that didn’t require internet access. I turned to Microsoft Excel and decided to chart out some data pertaining to the COVID-19 pandemic in the United States.
Over the past few weeks, I’ve kept seeing people…
Writing
Is this becoming an MLM cult?
It’s really sad to watch as Medium falls from its glory days of one of the greatest platforms on the web. For those who weren’t around, you used to log in and your feed would be swollen with tons of juicy articles that you couldn’t wait to read.
You’d log…
Equality
I’d like to see the bell curve of men and responsibility. Quick, someone give me a chart…
Here we go again…
It’s been another week where I would sit back and watch a painfully irresponsible male making bad decisions that anyone with even the slightest bit of foresight could see coming.
Full disclosure, it might seem like I’m complaining about men a lot to score points or…
Relationships
The trick to love is in the waiting…
Love is one area of life where most of us fail miserably. And not only do we fail, but we usually fail over and over and over again. I swear love has to have the worst success rate of anything we do in life.
In the words of Erich Fromm:
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